I look forward to making it until Thursday every week. Thursday is the one day my husband and I have off every week together and we have complete freedom from sunrise to sunset. This is usually the day we go hiking, to the beach, or something active and outdoors. But this Thursday I requested to have a "normal" day. I know this may sound strange. Pretty much for the past 7 months of living on this Island nearly every off day we are go, go, go trying to pack in everything we can into one day. I am normally either sweaty from a hike or salty from the ocean. Which I am definitely NOT complaining about. My very selfless husband is always asking me what sounds fun to me to do for the day, so I decided I wanted to wear regular clothes and have a day like we would have spent together in Nashville before we lived on an island.
So we went to a couple shops and then ate lunch at Chillis. Then we headed to the windward side of the island to go to a farmers market.
We had so much fun walking around outside and looking at everything. That had lots of unique flowers. We went with a classic flower for our purchase.
This charming sunflower was only three dollars. I always want to buy flowers to put on our table because it makes me feel happy to see them. For some reason I really didn't want to buy any, but Landry was relentless in convincing me we needed to get this one.
Can you pick out my goofy husband in this picture?? He was waiting on our dinner. We had a chicken gyro, a side salad, and a piece of watermelon. I haven't tasted watermelon since last summer in Tennessee and it tasted like a sweet piece of the south.
Here is another flower picture. Landry normally does not want to waste money on flowers that die, but he really was in the mood to buy some this day for some reason. We almost bought some of these ones as well. I am not sure what type of flowers are in the orange bucket in this picture, but they smelled just like honey suckles.
We had a great "normal" day.
We purchased one sunflower, three mangoes, romaine lettuce and bananas. Everything was fresh, nutritious and delicious.
Monday, September 10, 2012
Monday, September 3, 2012
Peace and Patience
Yesterday the two sermons on Sunday morning and evening really pulled on my heart strings. For the past several months since beginning my new job I have struggled to keep a positive attitude in a negative atmosphere. I work with 4 other tailors at my job. Two of which are older ladies with complaining spirits. Every morning on my 45 minute drive into work I try to focus my mind on keeping my attitude Christ like for the day. When I arrive I am refreshed and ready to conquer my day. Some days I am strong and I don't let things get to me, but other days I am quiet and withdrawn out of fear of saying something rude.
One lady is constantly telling me how tired she feels. She is tired if she talks too much, tired if she has to do too many fittings and always complaining that her work load is too heavy. Even when I wake up feeling good a couple hours after listening to how bad she feels starts to bring me down.
The other lady is more direct at putting me down. She tells me I didn't refill the iron with water, I left her machine messy, if something is a re-do on an alteration she always says I did it. When I first started working with her I was in complete shock at how hurtful her words were. Now I am used to the harsh words and her attitude of blaming others, but it still strongly effects me daily.
I say all of this to preface why have been studying the words peace and patience, two of the fruits of the spirit. In Galatians 5:22-24 it says, "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy , peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires." I feel as though it is not a coincidence that the words peace and patience are side by side. You must possess one to have the other. If you have peace in your life you will have more patience with people. If you are patient with people you will have more peace in your life.
Our Sunday morning sermon was presented by one of our elders. The title of the lesson was happiness. O boy, do I want to be happy and so do most people in this world. He said, as Christians we should be the happiest people on this earth. Man, that statement really hit me. A lot of days I let more co-workers extreme unhappiness steal my happiness. I want to shine my light before others, so that they may see my good works and give glory to God (Matthew 5:16). How can I be an example to my co-workers if my attitude is just as negative as theirs. He told us to practice an "Attitude of Gratitude." To write down one thing that makes you happy every night before you go to bed. What a great idea to train your brain to think about happy things. Proverbs 17:22, "A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones." He also said the less we talk about the negative the less they become important. I want to be an encouraging person. I want others to draw to me to feel relief from the stresses that this life causes.
It is tempting when someone puts you down to fire back at them with hurtful words. Here is where the word patience comes into play. I am constantly praying for patience and the words from Psalm 37:7-8,11 strongly speak to me right now. "Be still before the Lord and wait Patiently for him; fret not yourself over the one who prospers in his way, over the man who carries out evil devices! Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath! Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil. But the meek shall inherit the land and delight themselves in abundant peace." Wow, I found this verse this morning and it has the two words that have been running through my mind peace and patience. My human nature has wanted to be mean and not friendly to those who have hurt me with harsh words. But my God tells me differently. He tells me too be patient and to wait on him. He will give me the peace I need. I can not show Christ to others if I look just like everyone else in this world. By being a peacemaker in a stressful situation I think is a great way to look very different from people of this world.
Our evening lesson did not go hand and hand with the morning happiness lesson, but it spoke perfectly to my current situation. His lesson was on the apostle Andrew. There are only 13 scriptures that mention Andrew and he is not know as one of the "great" apostles, he was just an ordinary person. In John 1:40-41 we see he brought his brother Peter to Jesus and Peter did many great things, but Andrew was the one who brought him to Jesus. Also in John 6:8-9 Andrew was the one who brought the boy with the fish and bread to feed the 5,000 to Jesus. The point of his lesson was you don't have to be able to preach like Peter or Paul to bring people to Jesus. He said our desire as Christians should be to bring others to Christ. The biggest thing that hit me from his lesson was this statement he made, "We might be someones only connection to meeting Christ." Woah, Woah, Woah that is very scary to me. How many people have I come in contact with that God put in my path specifically so I could share him with them. I fail too often at speaking up and telling people about what is most important, my Lord. Why this lesson spoke to me and my situation right now is I feel I truly might be some people I know right nows only connection to Christ.
So my prayer is to continue to seek peace versus anger. To be a happy person and to practice gratitude. Most importantly to be fearless in telling others around me of the peace and freedom I receive daily by walking through life with Jesus.
One lady is constantly telling me how tired she feels. She is tired if she talks too much, tired if she has to do too many fittings and always complaining that her work load is too heavy. Even when I wake up feeling good a couple hours after listening to how bad she feels starts to bring me down.
The other lady is more direct at putting me down. She tells me I didn't refill the iron with water, I left her machine messy, if something is a re-do on an alteration she always says I did it. When I first started working with her I was in complete shock at how hurtful her words were. Now I am used to the harsh words and her attitude of blaming others, but it still strongly effects me daily.
I say all of this to preface why have been studying the words peace and patience, two of the fruits of the spirit. In Galatians 5:22-24 it says, "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy , peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires." I feel as though it is not a coincidence that the words peace and patience are side by side. You must possess one to have the other. If you have peace in your life you will have more patience with people. If you are patient with people you will have more peace in your life.
Our Sunday morning sermon was presented by one of our elders. The title of the lesson was happiness. O boy, do I want to be happy and so do most people in this world. He said, as Christians we should be the happiest people on this earth. Man, that statement really hit me. A lot of days I let more co-workers extreme unhappiness steal my happiness. I want to shine my light before others, so that they may see my good works and give glory to God (Matthew 5:16). How can I be an example to my co-workers if my attitude is just as negative as theirs. He told us to practice an "Attitude of Gratitude." To write down one thing that makes you happy every night before you go to bed. What a great idea to train your brain to think about happy things. Proverbs 17:22, "A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones." He also said the less we talk about the negative the less they become important. I want to be an encouraging person. I want others to draw to me to feel relief from the stresses that this life causes.
It is tempting when someone puts you down to fire back at them with hurtful words. Here is where the word patience comes into play. I am constantly praying for patience and the words from Psalm 37:7-8,11 strongly speak to me right now. "Be still before the Lord and wait Patiently for him; fret not yourself over the one who prospers in his way, over the man who carries out evil devices! Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath! Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil. But the meek shall inherit the land and delight themselves in abundant peace." Wow, I found this verse this morning and it has the two words that have been running through my mind peace and patience. My human nature has wanted to be mean and not friendly to those who have hurt me with harsh words. But my God tells me differently. He tells me too be patient and to wait on him. He will give me the peace I need. I can not show Christ to others if I look just like everyone else in this world. By being a peacemaker in a stressful situation I think is a great way to look very different from people of this world.
Our evening lesson did not go hand and hand with the morning happiness lesson, but it spoke perfectly to my current situation. His lesson was on the apostle Andrew. There are only 13 scriptures that mention Andrew and he is not know as one of the "great" apostles, he was just an ordinary person. In John 1:40-41 we see he brought his brother Peter to Jesus and Peter did many great things, but Andrew was the one who brought him to Jesus. Also in John 6:8-9 Andrew was the one who brought the boy with the fish and bread to feed the 5,000 to Jesus. The point of his lesson was you don't have to be able to preach like Peter or Paul to bring people to Jesus. He said our desire as Christians should be to bring others to Christ. The biggest thing that hit me from his lesson was this statement he made, "We might be someones only connection to meeting Christ." Woah, Woah, Woah that is very scary to me. How many people have I come in contact with that God put in my path specifically so I could share him with them. I fail too often at speaking up and telling people about what is most important, my Lord. Why this lesson spoke to me and my situation right now is I feel I truly might be some people I know right nows only connection to Christ.
So my prayer is to continue to seek peace versus anger. To be a happy person and to practice gratitude. Most importantly to be fearless in telling others around me of the peace and freedom I receive daily by walking through life with Jesus.
Sunday, September 2, 2012
Cruisin' on the Coast
Our last day was pretty full of excitment. We took a 7 and a 1/2 hour boat tour of the Napali coast. The ride out to the coast took about an hour and a half and I was cold so we sat inside the boat. Breakfast was included and Landry took full advantage of the food. They had bagels, banana bread, coffee cake and fruit. I am pretty sure Landry went back four times to get more food. He has no shame.
The port we left out of was "Port Allen" how fitting! |
The Forbidden Island of Niihau is the other reason we wanted to do a boat tour. It is an Island that can be accessed by boat or helicopter. The Holo Holo Charter that we were on is one of the few boats with permission to go to the island. Our captain said there is around 60 people that live there. They have no electricity or running water and they have a boat that comes out once a month with supplies for them.
The water around the island is so clear and great for scuba diving and snorkeling. We stopped for an hour to snorkel.
I came around the corner and I was about 5 feet away from this Hawaiian Monk Seal. I have seen them on the beach, but never in the water. I got Landry's attention and while he was taking some pictures I turned my head and saw my first ever shark!! I tried to be calm and not yell shark to Landry because I did not want to scare everyone in the water. Here's a video Landry got. We think he was a grey reef shark around 6-7 feet long. He was 20 or 30 feet below us, but we could see him pretty clearly because the clarity of the water was so good.
We were tired and sunburned when we made it back to shore.We took a nap in our car and then washed off in one of the beach showers. Our flight out was at 9pm and we were home by ten and back to work the next morning.
Our first island hop was a success!
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